Monday, November 24, 2008

PBF's First Thanksgiving


Another First...


The table decorations were provided by our children. It was so sweet.
Since July we have had so many wonderful firsts. This was our first Thanksgiving as a church family. I stood back and said, Wow! God is so Good. I am so thankful for this absolutely amazing church family and look forward to many more firsts with them.










We had great food, wonderful fellowship, touching moments, laughter, thankful moments, a few tear jerkers and some kissing...We had a very blessed afternoon!
God is so Good!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

5 days and counting...

Potato's...

Five days until one of my favorite holidays. Thanksgiving seems to be less stress for me. I don't have to cook at my house so I don't have to stress about my house being clean. I have exactly 25 days left before I have to stress about my house being clean.


Maker of yeast rolls. YUM!!!
We all go to Jan's house and cook Thanksgiving dinner. We have green beans (usually Granny Noland's canned green beans), mashed potato's, Uncle Dap's famous twice baked potato's, marshmallow sweet potato's, almond sweet potato's, Granny Jan's dressing, home made yeast rolls, cranberry sauce and of course turkey. I guess you can see that we love potato's. Everyone has a favorite and one year we tried to make just one and that really back fired. That will never happen again! Who would think a person could get so upset over potatoes?

I am getting ready to go to the store...guess what I am buying? POTATO'S


Thursday, November 20, 2008

Christmas Pic's...Ugh!

Smile...


Please...


Smile and act like you love each other...


Christmas 07'
It's that time of year again. Time to take the girls pictures for Christmas cards. Oh Joy! In my house it is like pulling teeth. The whole process usually ends with at least one threat... sometimes several threats. Decisions, fighting and more decisions. What should I wear, do these shoes go with that outfit, should I curl or straighten my hair, do I have to much make-up on, she's touching me, I don't like the back round, why do I have to take a picture with Sparky, I don't know why we send Christmas cards, I think we clash, she's touching me...they go on and on. I think this year I am going to tell the girls that we are going to take one picture and whatever we get is what we will send. This could be interesting. Last year I think I took 62 and they were still not happy with the one I sent out. Alycia said that all of her friends thought she looked oriental and Kacey just plain didn't like it. They were both smiling and their eyes were open that was all that mattered to me. I think I will just send the first two pictures and bypass all of the stress. This is what they look like most of the time anyway. If for some reason these are the pictures you receive this year...you will know why.



Hmmm.....

Jan sent me this e-mail and I have to confess to you I am probably guilty of a few of these. I have a Blackberry and yes, yes, yes! they are addictive. I do panic if I can't find my phone but I also panic if I can't find my Bible. Kenny got me my last Bible its an ESV and I love, love, love it.

Cell Phone vs. Bible

Ever wonder what would happen if we treated our Bible like we treat our cell phone??

What if we carried it around in our purses or pockets?
What if we flipped through it several time a day?
What if we turned back to go get it if we forgot it?
What if we used it to receive messages from the text?
What if we treated it like we couldn't live without it?
What if we gave it to Kids as gifts?
What if we used it when we traveled?
What if we used it in case of emergency?
This is something to make you go....hmm...where is my Bible?
And no dropped calls!



Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Thanks Brother Joe

Last night I was on here trying to enter a post and I couldn't get satisfied with my post so... I went to blog surfing. Not surprising at all. This is one of my favorite things to do. I went down my list of favorites and there it was an answer to a question that here lately had come up several times in conversation. If you have ever had any questions about the Age of Accountability you need to read this. Brother Joe has such a loving heart and lays it out there for us.
The blog site is called http://www.criticaldiscernment.blogspot.com/ This is the blog site that our Youth Pastor Tom started. There is some great knowledge there. God is so Good! Enjoy!



http://www.providencebaptistfellowship.com/

Monday, November 17, 2008

I am a C, I am a Ch...

After the election I wrote about how proud I was to be an American and how proud I was that people with such different views (Republicans/Democrats) could put aside their differences and support the President that we just elected. We are all Americans and no matter what happens during the years prior to or during an election we can all move on. I don't like my neighbors any less that had a sign in their yard for Obama. I also had family that voted for Obama and I still love them. We are a very diverse society and just because we are all proud to be American does not mean that we will all agree on everything.

This train of thought has spilled over in to my thinking about church. Why do we feel that we must agree on everything. We need to focus on what UNITES us not what DIVIDES us. There are a lot of things that divide us...non-truths, harsh words, unforgiving hearts, mean looks, diverse beliefs, unknown theology, closed minds, pride, and so many more. I have experienced division first hand this year. Division is of the devil. People that you think could never do a mean thing are dancing around waist deep in division goo. During battle we are all to proud to admit to any wrong doing. We forget about the one thing that UNITES us. We are all CHRISTIANS!

I go back to my kids singing I am a C, I am a CH, I am a CHRISTIAN! Church is like everything else today, there are many different opinions but we are still working for the same end result. We want to spread the word of God so that others can have everlasting life with him. This is our main job.

I am a C, I am a CH, I am a CHRISTIAN, I have CHRIST in my HEART.....

Saturday, November 15, 2008

22 years later...

He's still my best friend!


Today is our Anniversary. We have been married 22 years. I can't believe its been this many years. I still feel like we should be a young couple until I look in the mirror. Thank goodness we have grown older together. Ha!
The past 22 years have brought many blessings. Two of the best blessings in our lives are our girls. Alycia is 17 and Kacey is 12. Every time I look at them I see their Daddy's big heart and sense of humor. I hope that someday they find a husband that is as wonderful as their dad.


Kenny has always been there over the years to give a word of encouragement, a kind smile when I was down, a hug when needed, even a little harassment on occasion. He pulled a good joke on me last night. You'd think I would learn.
God has not only blessed me with a wonderful husband and father for my kids. He has also blessed our family with an amazing leader. He loves the Lord! What could be any better than that!
I am so thankful for these past 22 years and I can not wait to see what the next years bring. Good/Bad, Happy/Sad it won't matter as long as Kenny is by my side.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

It's just Wednesday?!?!

Today is Wednesday? Your kidding right...I feel like I have ran right past Friday and jumped into Monday again. This has been a long week if you haven't already noticed. I sat down here this morning and thought there were a lot of things that I could discuss, some not so pretty, but today I needed a smile.


What makes me smile?
  • Jesus!

  • My girls Alycia and Kacey.

  • When Kenny calls just to talk about nothing.

  • A new baby (I saw a pic of one yesterday, Wow! Big smile!)

  • Alycia with her friends.

  • Kacey when she is reading a book (she loves reading)

  • Bible Study with the wonderful ladies.

  • The leaves falling in the back yard.

  • Friends that stop what there doing and pray with you.

  • When friends show up just to say they care.

  • Sunday evening Bible Study.

  • A fire in the fireplace on a chilly morning.

  • Thanksgiving dinner at Jans.

  • When Mom and Dad come for Christmas.

  • Wags when he makes a certain growling sound.

  • The sound of the beach.

  • Blogging!

  • Reading Blogs

  • When my house is clean. (not very often)

  • When we pull up at church on Sunday.

  • Kacey bouncing around the house.

  • Alycia driving.

  • flip flops

  • The first morning you realize that spring is here.

  • getting a tan

  • Summer youth trips.

Just thinking about all of the things that make me smile...makes me feel like I can make it to the end of the week. Friday always makes me smile. I hope you are having a great week and if not...sit down and make a smile list. It works!


God is so Good!

Friday, November 7, 2008

Lets Dance...

This morning I received an e-mail from a friend that took me back to my early years of marriage. My dear Grandma Grogan said something to me that has stuck in my mind but I don't know if I have used her advice wisely. She told me, "Honey don't ever put off things with your family because your house is a mess, that messy house will be there when you are dead and gone. Enjoy every minute you have now before it is too late. You never know when the Lord will call you home." The e-mail below also got me to thinking about Grandma...something I hadn't done in a while. A lot of good memories and stories I need to share with the girls.


Will You Dance With Me?
Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it or don't have it on their schedule. I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible. How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched 'Jeopardy' on television? I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, 'How about going to lunch in a half hour?' She would gas up and stammer, 'I can't. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain.' And my personal favorite: 'It's Monday.' She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together. My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-Decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy. Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to......not something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting? Ever told your child, 'We'll do it tomorrow.' And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say 'Hi? When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift....Thrown away..... Life is not a race Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over. 'Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance!

I shortened this quite a bit but I am sure you all can put things in your life into this e-mail. Life is to short and for some reason (unknown to me) we keep going like hamsters on a wheel.

Today lets dance!!


Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Proud American

Election 08'



Yesterday November 4, 2008 was election day. It was a day that was going to make history. The Democrats would have the First African American President or the Republicans would have the first woman Vice President. I never thought I would see either one in my lifetime. Our country has come so far in the past 100 years. My kids have a hard time believing that at one time in our country women or African Americans didn't have the option to vote much less the opportunity to become president.

I have made it no secret that I was voting for the McCain/Palin ticket. I was not crazy about either side but I felt that the Republicans represented more of my beliefs and concerns. Last night as I sat in my living room with family and realized pretty early on that McCain was not going to win a calmness came over me. God knew this was going to happen. This was not a surprise to Him. He was still in control. God uses everything for His glory and this election would be no different.

I have always been patriotic. I was an army brat. My dad served this country for over 20 years. It never mattered who the president was it just mattered that we were Americans that lived in the greatest country in the world. So after a long hard fight for the White House Americans all across this great nation will put aside hard feelings and come together because that is who we are...We are proud Americans.

Last night I immediately started praying for our nation and our new President. I will be in prayer for President Elect Obama and our government over the next days, weeks, and months to come. Our country is going to be experiencing some difficult times and decisions and now is not the time that we should forsake God.
One nation under God and very proud of it.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Dress-up!

Palin/Hippie


I don't think that those two words go together but Friday night they did.
Kacey was Sara Palin and Alycia was a Hippie. I think they both pulled off their costume. Kacey had the hair and glasses going on and I think Alycia missed her era. She would of fit right in in the 70's.